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Monday, February 7, 2011

Drama 36 : tabahkah lelaki itu...

reality show giuliana and bill really touched me on how they struggled to get a baby.. of course any married couples.. kids usually completed the marriage.. but what on my mind right now..

if i'm in giuliana case... am i that tough to go through all the treatment.. am i ready mentally and physically to face it?.. plus in malay culture... after a few months of marriage... there will be so many 'penjaga tepi kain org'.. actually i've once heard this makcik asked my aunt.. ko da pregnant ke skrng?. when she said xde rezeki lagi la cik... so i'm expected that makcik will said something will comfort her.. but she says something like this.. iye.. ko tau ank makcik bla bla  bru je kawen da nk dpt baby (ckp gile kepoh)... i was like... what's wrong wit u makcik?...cant u say something that's good to hear..  cm nk sepak je mulut makcik tu..she don even knew.. my aunt hv tried so many things to make her pregnant... it just not her luck yet... i'm da one who heard feels  pissed -off.. if i'm the carrier of the body.. i think i will eventually cry :(....

for the Bill side... is that my future husband will totally like Bill?..  being so sweet.. so caring.. so supportive.. and understanding with his wife conditions... it makes me  thinking like 100 times to get married... in case i hv this problms too... how my future husband will react and overcome it.. will he'll be there for me too?.. or he let me got bumped into this alone.. :(.. 

4 comments:

shakeera said...
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shakeera said...

Oh dear, it is not easy to find a man like Bill. In our case, in being a Muslim, a man is allowed to practice polygamy. If you get married to a typical Malay man, he might use this excuse to marry another woman. But Allah will always be there to listen to you, if this problem occurs to you, I am also here to cheer you. There is always an option of adoption :) Many unfortunate children will be thankful to have you as a mother. Anyhow, don't be afraid to get married, I'm sure you'll find someone that will care through thick and thin. <3

Anonymous said...

waaa takut nye :(

penglipurpropa said...

shake.. ur words always inspired me :)

takutkan kan fa.... uuuu~